Well, probably my family situation. My mom lived with a woman for 6 years and remained married to my dad (stepdad who adopted me) and "saw" both of them for the entire time. I'm not ashamed but people tend to look at you like it's rubbed off or ask a lot of stupid questions. My mom has since dumped her girlfriend and is still with my dad, and lives across the ocean from him, in Hawaii. (Way to go, Mom, quite the midlife crisis!) Runnerup would be: my secret Martha Stewart leanings or my real name if you ever happened across my journal.

-- blanche blank (mireillie@yahoo.com), February 26, 2000