Molly, you're one of my favourite people and I don't want to see you hurt, so I hope that you and Mark will consider undergoing pre-marital counselling to work out issues before they become problems - especially since there's a big financial one (i.e. house) looming.

I wish I'd done it before my doomed marriage, and I think it would help lower the divoce rate overall.

Agree? If not, why?

-- Javina (javina@javina.com), March 30, 2000

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counselling

Thanks for the advice Javina. I'm supposed to be hearing from a therapist today about who might be available. I decided last week that it was something to look into.

We shall see!

-- Molly Zero (mollyzero@diarist.net), April 03, 2000.

counselling, again

Glad to hear you're investigating the prospects. I'm sure you and Mark will be just fine but it's good to get issues out of the way before they grow into big problems.

There's also a book you might like: "Relationship Rescue" by Phil someone. It's not just for couples in trouble, it's about making your relationship the best it was be. Might be useful.

Take care, Javina

-- Javina (javina@javina.com), April 03, 2000.