I'm a very new reader but I just wanted to say one thing. Good luck Beth in finding the answers you seek. While many have looked at me funny when I have used this quote as a way to say good luck, I still think it's appropriate for most situations.

"Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so." Douglas Adams, Last Chance to See.

-- Anonymous, March 27, 2001