Can we get married in a Catholic Church?

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My fiance and I are making plans for our wedding and he would like to get married in a Catholic Church if possible. However, there are a few issues that may prevent this from happening:

1. He is divorced - he got married to his former wife in a Mormon church, but he is a life-long Catholic.

2. I was raised Catholic, but am no longer a practicing member of the Catholic church.

I do not have a preference either way (married in or out of the church), but because he would like to, I wanted to know if it was at all possible. Any information you can provide is appreciated.

-- Cheri Parmenter (parmentercheri@yahoo.com), March 03, 2005

Answers

Best person to ask is your local Priest. His first marriage might cause a slight delay, but because it was in a non-christian church, I don't know the rule.

Congratz on your pending marriage.

I know this is beyond the scope of your question, but why don't you care? What is it about the Catholic church that repells you?

-- Davis (Hello@There.com), March 03, 2005.


Thanks for the info - I will let my fiance know.

And thank you for the congratulatory remarks.

It's not that I don't care - I just have no preference either way. As for what "repells" me about the Catholic church, I prefer not to discuss that with someone who is Catholic. My mother and I have already had that conversation too many times and she has never been able to convince me that my disenchantment with the Catholic church is unfounded.

-- Cheri Parmenter (parmentercheri@yahoo.com), March 03, 2005.


If we can do anything to help you, please let us know. As for talking to a CATHOLIC I understand. I felt the same way before I converted. I have probably dealt with some of the same issues you have. Don't get me wrong, just trying to help.

Blessings to the two of you.

-- Davis (Hello@There.com), March 03, 2005.


He will have to submit the details of his first marriage to a marriage tribunal which, given the circumstances you describe, will issue a statement that his first marriage is invalid. Then he will be free to marry in the church. His priest can give him the necessary forms to be filled out to start the process.

With all due respect, any "disenchantment" that leads a person to reject God's will is always unfounded; and it is God's will that all mankind belong to the one true Church He personally founded for us.

-- Paul M. (PaulCyp@cox.net), March 03, 2005.


Thank you for the offer, but I have not been practicing for quite a long time and I don't have any plans to start again any time soon.

-- Cheri Parmenter (parmentercheri@yahoo.com), March 03, 2005.


Thank you for the helpful information about the marriage tribunal - I will pass this information along to my fiance.

-- Cheri Parmenter (parmentercheri@yahoo.com), March 03, 2005.

(Sorry, I left the italics on ... still learning)

-- Davis (Hello@There.com), March 03, 2005.

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